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ON St. Elmo, a vibrant fusion of restaurant, lounge, and entertainment venue. Located at 4915 St. Elmo Avenue in the heart of Downtown Bethesda, this vibrant space showcases American coastal, Mediterranean-inspired cuisine amidst an atmosphere brimming with creativity and flair.
Bad Behavior: Immersive Pole Cabaret Experiences
”Exploring the Indulgences We Crave and the Habits We Can’t Resist”
UPCOMING EVENTS

Spring Has Sprung: Flying Buddha's Student & Teacher Showcase Performances
Mother nature is calling! Step into the season of love and renewal with Flying Buddha’s “Spring Has Sprung” multi-apparatus performance at ON St. Elmo!
Join us for an enchanting evening filled with aerial hammock, lyra, chains, and pole performances that celebrate nature’s untamed beauty and vibrant awakening.
Sip on floral-inspired drinks, dance to beats from our live DJ, and celebrate the magic of movement and community. Expect breathtaking performances, sparkling costumes, and joyful surprises throughout the night.

Spring Has Sprung - Junior's Edition
Spring Has Sprung: Junior’s Edition features Flying Buddha’s dedicated young aerialists as they bring their hard work and creativity to life with their aerial hammock performances.
Experience an enchanting evening of aerial hammock inspired by nature’s untamed beauty and the spirit of the season. These performers have been training, refining, and collaborating to share movement that is both powerful and heartfelt.
Enjoy floral-inspired drinks, dance to beats from our live DJ, and immerse yourself in the magic of community. Expect breathtaking performances, sparkling costumes, and joyful surprises throughout the night.
Come celebrate the next generation of aerial artists as they rise, transform, and take flight.

On St. Elmo Comedy Bunker 14
RAHMEIN MOSTAFAVI
Rahmein Mostafavi charms crowds with comic timing and charisma developed throughout two decades of live performance. He addresses social and political topics with a combination of satirical and observational comedy, leaving audiences with a greater sense of purpose, sex appeal and the occasional leg cramp.
AMBER HENDRIX
Amber Hendrix is a Richmond, Virginia-based comedian and producer with the bite force of a juvenile caiman. A writer for satire sites Reductress and The Hard Times, Amber has opened for Dave Attell, Emily Catalano, Rachel Scanlon, and Geoffrey Asmus, among others.
MATT CHRZANOWSKI
Matt Chrzanowski is a stand-up comedian based out of Washington, DC. He talks a lot about his southern upbringing and corporate life. There isn’t much overlap between the two. Matt has performed at the DC Improv, Laughing Skull Lounge, 9:30 Club, and the Red Clay Comedy Festival.
HOSTED BY:
PETE BERGEN
He may look and sound gruff but he is a big bear of a sweetheart. You’ll love his take on his own sordid history and observations in general.

✨ Spark: Match Night (Ages 22–35)
Get ready to mix, mingle, and spark some connections at our Match and Meet Spark Edition (22-35) | Summer Singles Social!
📅 Thursday, May 29 · 7:00 – 9:00 PM
📍 On St. Elmo — Bethesda, MD
Swipe fatigue? Same.
Spark is your chance to meet people face-to-face in a space that actually feels like a night out — not a dating app.
We’ve taken what works (good energy, real conversation, a bit of structure) and built a night that helps you meet great people naturally.
🧠 How It Works
1️⃣ Arrive, grab a drink, and settle in
2️⃣ Complete a quick phone-based compatibility quiz
3️⃣ Meet your curated matches in small rounds
4️⃣ Mingle freely with the full group
⏰ Event Flow
7:00 PM — Arrival & Questionnaire
7:15 PM — Drink Tickets & Open Mingle
7:45 PM — Groups Revealed
8:00 PM — First match
8:20 PM — Second match
8:40 PM — Third Match
👗 Dress Code
Date-night ready.
Think confident, polished, and social — cocktail, smart casual, or something that makes you feel great.

🍷 Sophisticated: Match Night (Ages 35–49)
Get ready to mix, mingle, and spark some connections at our Match and Meet Spark Edition (35-49) | Summer Singles Social!
For Singles Who Know Themselves — And Know What They Want
📅 Friday, May 30 · 7:00 – 9:00 PM
📍 On St. Elmo — Bethesda, MD
You’ve done the apps. You’ve done the guessing.
Sophisticated is for people who want to meet others in a way that feels natural, social, and intentional — without the pressure of traditional dating events.
This is a curated night out where good conversation comes first.
🧠 How It Works
1️⃣ Arrive, grab a drink, and settle in
2️⃣ Complete a quick phone-based compatibility quiz
3️⃣ Meet your matches in small, guided rounds
4️⃣ Continue the conversation during open mingle
👔 Dress Code
Polished. Confident. Effortless.
Think date-night ready — cocktail attire, smart casual, or something that reflects your personal style.

ETHNIKA
DJ Mixalis playing International and Ethnic house music with live precessions by Oracle Eleni

Bad Behavior: Garden of Temptation
Step into a world of pure indulgence. Narrated by DJ Christopher Blackstar with group choreography by Flying Buddha’s talented Sarah Hill, this immersive pole cabaret tells the story of how it all started — through six captivating solo, duo, and group performances featuring Eve, the Serpent, Forbidden Fruit, and Garden Mischief.
Savor our à la carte food and drink menu while the story unfolds.

A Night in Paris: Moulin Rouge Cabaret Experience
Step into Parisian glamour at A Night in Paris: Moulin Rouge, an immersive cabaret dining experience. The evening begins with a cocktail hour featuring passed hors d’oeuvres, then unfolds into burlesque, aerial, and theatrical acts — complete with a mystical fortune teller and a live DJ — all alongside a prix-fixe dinner. As the final act concludes, the energy rises into a late-night disco for guests to stay and dance the night away.
Dress in your most glamorous Parisian-inspired look and indulge in a night of pure decadence.
Tickets include: Passed hors d’oeuvres, cabaret show, and prix-fixe dinner. Cash bar available.

Bad Behavior: Vices
We all have our vices…tonight, we celebrate them. Step inside the speakeasy Side Bar at ON St. Elmo and indulge in your vices.
Bad Behavior: VICES is a 90-minute immersive pole cabaret experience exploring the indulgences we crave and the habits we can’t resist. From the glow of late-night scrolling to the sweetness of overindulgence, each act brings a different vice to life through sensual movement, theatrical storytelling, and captivating performance.
Featuring six dynamic pole performances, this intimate experience blends modern edge with classic cabaret allure, where desire, discipline, and decadence collide. Guiding you through the evening is your host and narrator, DJ Christopher Blackstar, weaving each vice into a seamless, seductive journey.
Give in…just this once.

Bad Behavior: Rock 'n' Roll
Lock the doors and pour it neat—Bad Behavior is back, and this month, we’re burning the house down with a tribute to the icons of excess. From the hotel-room-trashing chaos of the 70s to the gritty underground of the 90s, we are celebrating the legends who lived fast and played loud.
Step into the shadows of the Side Bar for an immersive pole cabaret experience that explores the vices and victories of music history. Whether it’s the white-knuckle rush of Eric Clapton’s “Cocaine,” the leather-clad rebellion of Joan Jett, or the dark allure of The Rolling Stones, our performers are bringing the lyrics to life through gravity-defying strength and unapologetic heat.
THE LINEUP
6 Explosive Acts: Featuring a high-energy group opening, four visceral solo performances, and a powerhouse duo.
DJ and MC Christopher Blackstar steers the ship, spinning a heavy-hitting soundtrack of rock anthems, grunge classics, and metal ballads.
The Atmosphere: A hidden speakeasy, a pole, and a room full of people ready to behave badly.
In the world of Rock n’ Roll, there are no rules—only the beat. Are you ready to witness the fallout?

Bad Behavior: Escape
What does it mean to truly get away?
In this month’s edition of Bad Behavior, we invite you to surrender to Escape, a 90-minute immersive pole cabaret experience that explores the many ways we detach, unwind, and disappear from reality.
Hidden inside the intimate speakeasy setting of the Side Bar at ON St. Elmo, the space transforms into a world of shifting fantasies and altered states. From the allure of luxury vacations and daydreams to the seductive pull of television, nightlife, and indulgence, each act reveals a different path to escape—and what lies beneath it.
The show features 6 acts performed by 4 captivating artists, blending a visually striking group performance, four distinct solos, and a provocative duo. Each piece is uniquely choreographed to evoke a specific escape—whether it’s euphoric, chaotic, sensual, or dangerously addictive.
Guiding the evening is the magnetic Christopher Blackstar, serving as both MC and narrator. With a voice that draws you deeper into the experience, he threads each act together into a seamless, dreamlike journey.
Escape is intimate, immersive, and unapologetically raw. The line between audience and performer dissolves as you’re pulled into a world where reality fades, and temptation takes over.
Escape isn’t just the theme… it’s the invitation.

ON & On Fridays
Every Friday at ON St. Elmo: Dinner & Dancing + Live DJ in Bethesda
Make Friday night in Bethesda effortless and elevated at ON St. Elmo. Join us every Friday for a luxury lounge atmosphere featuring Happy Hour from 4PM to 8PM, followed by Dinner & Dancing with a Live DJ spinning the best hits from the 80s, 90s, and 2000s. Expect a curated mix of pop, hip-hop, and house, designed to set the mood early and keep the energy going late.
Whether you’re planning a stylish night out, a date night, or a celebration with friends, ON St. Elmo delivers the perfect blend of great food, crafted cocktails, and a dancefloor-ready vibe. Start with Happy Hour, stay for dinner, and end the night with our late-night menu, created for after-hours cravings without leaving the lounge.
Reservations are strongly encouraged for the best experience. Bring your friends, book your table, and make ON St. Elmo your new Friday tradition.

Wine Down Wednesdays
Enjoy Half Price Bottles of Wine All Day from Open to Close Every Wednesday
Sip & Savor – Make a ReservationHOURS
Wednesday & Thursday, 4pm – 11am
Friday & Saturday, 4pm – 2am
Happy Hour, 4pm – 7pm
Dinner, 4pm – 11pm
Late night menu, 11pm – 2am (Fri & Sat only)
Closed Sundays (except for special events)
Closed
- Christmas Day
- New Years Day
- Thanksgiving












Private & Semi-Private Events
ON St. Elmo is a restaurant, bar, lounge, live entertainment, and events venue built for memorable gatherings. We host everything from social celebrations and corporate events to mitzvahs and full venue buy-outs, with flexible spaces and a dedicated events team to bring your vision to life.

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